Should I wait for my spouse to file for a divorce?

Some of our clients tackle their problems head on. Others sit back and wait for their spouse to take the first step.

In our view waiting is almost always a mistake. In some cases, the cost of delay can be enormous. Waiting may risk the client’s spouse issuing proceedings in another jurisdiction and this can have enormous consequences for the ultimate outcome of the case (for instance, as you might imagine some countries are far less generous to the financially weaker party than the UK).

Even if jurisdiction isn’t a problem, your spouse might use the delay to make things harder for you. They could start hiding assets to prevent you from getting your fair share or start spending uncontrollably to increase their claim. They may even try to stop you from being able to see your children.

Issuing proceedings first often makes a client feel more in control of their own destiny. Divorce can be difficult, but it is also about building your own, independent future. Taking charge and taking the first step is an important part of that.

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