Get a prenup first, then put a ring on it ========================================= ![Get a prenup first, then put a ring on it](https://vardags.com/images/pictures/_360/96b317780b4be83e257d082940f4e6cf.jpeg)Vardags director Catherine Thomas spoke to [Metro News](https://metro.co.uk/2014/01/20/get-a-pre-nup-first-then-put-a-ring-on-it-to-hopefully-avoid-a-bitter-divorce-4267415/) about the January rush to see a divorce lawyer and the importance that prenuptial agreements can have. Talking about the period in which lawyers are reportedly busiest, she said "*People look back on the past year and think about what they want from the year ahead - for many, that involves extracting themselves from a marriage. If people work long hours, Christmas might be the first time they have had to make those big decisions*." Advising on the way that a prenuptial agreement can protect a marriage, she said "*People say pre-nups are unromantic but the conversations that ensue from drawing one up are very healthy. They force you to talk about how you see your futures together - if you want to have children, if so how many, if you will both work or if one will stay at home, what sort of schools they will go to, if you want a holiday home*." Catherine also suggested that openness and transparency could be key to having an amicable separation. She told the paper "*Don't take it personally when your spouse or their lawyers want documents to prove what's going on financially - the lawyers are just doing their jobs and if you've got nothing to hide, hand the information over,' she says. 'The sooner you do that, the sooner you can reach a settlement*." She finally advised people to be sensible and pragmatic when it comes to making arrangements for children "'*Acknowledging that the children's needs come first will often lessen the disputes during the divorce and can help when making plans about how to raise the children across two households*." Read more about our [top lawyers for prenuptial agreements](https://vardags.com/services/children-and-family/prenuptial-agreement) and how they cater for HNW and UHNW individuals. Alternatively, read more about the [legal history behind prenuptial agreements](https://vardags.com/law-guide/important-divorce-cases/radmacher-v-granatino). "Ayesha Vardag - Britain's top divorce lawyer." ![The Huffington Post](https://vardags.com/images/logo/huffpost.png) "Ayesha Vardag - Woman of the Year"![GG2](https://vardags.com/images/logo/gg2-3.png) "Leading, Magic Circle law firm."Mr Justice Coleridge "A handful of firms dominate the so-called 'glamour' end of the market ... Vardags"The Times "One of the best divorce lawyers in the country"Marie Claire "Ayesha Vardag - 'diva of divorce' for the world's super rich" ![BBC](https://vardags.com/images/logo/bbc.png) "Dr Stephen Bence is a financial genius."Lewis Marks KC "Ayesha Vardag - the Queen of divorce"Daily Mail "Vardags brilliantly argued my case to a resounding victory"Pauline Chai (client) "Britain's top divorce lawyer" ![The Telegraph](https://vardags.com/images/logo/telegraph.png) Articles by John Oxley ---------------------- [The most scandalous celebrity divorces in history](https://vardags.com/family-law/celebrity-divorces-history "The most scandalous celebrity divorces in history") [Why arbitration is the future for divorce](https://vardags.com/posts/arbitration-future-divorce "Why arbitration is the future for divorce") [Get a prenup first, then put a ring on it](https://vardags.com/posts/get-prenup-first "Get a prenup first, then put a ring on it") [The Rise (and Risks) of the DIY Prenups](https://vardags.com/posts/rise-risks-diy-prenup "The Rise (and Risks) of the DIY Prenups") [My legal life: Ayesha Vardag](https://vardags.com/posts/legal-life-ayesha-vardag "My legal life: Ayesha Vardag")