Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage ====================================================== ![Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage](https://vardags.com/images/pictures/_360/e7c4b89a47216ef8108c20e901843c1f.jpeg)Ayesha Vardag spoke to the [Daily Telegraph](https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/9859341/Dont-let-the-divorce-turn-out-worse-than-the-marriage.html) about the acrimony which can arise in divorce cases. The article catalogued war stories from various top divorce lawyers of petty flare-ups during proceedings. Ayesha said to the paper "*These cases sound funny, but the reality of someone being assailed with that degree of heartbreak is deeply sad*." She went on to explain the rising role of the internet in such disputes, telling the paper "*They get hold of their spouse's online address book and send an email to all their contacts outlining what they've done; or they alter statuses on Facebook*." Ayesha concluded with some sage advice. "*It happens again and again, but fortunately, the courts will not sanction any of this. I tell my clients that it's much better not to be vindictive but to follow Ivana Trump's maxim of, 'Don't get mad, get everything*" she said to would-be litigants. Ayesha's comments were featured alongside those of a number of leading experts in divorce and psychology, and additionally quoted in the Daily Mail. "Ayesha Vardag - Britain's top divorce lawyer." ![The Huffington Post](https://vardags.com/images/logo/huffpost.png) "Ayesha Vardag - Woman of the Year"![GG2](https://vardags.com/images/logo/gg2-3.png) "Leading, Magic Circle law firm."Mr Justice Coleridge "A handful of firms dominate the so-called 'glamour' end of the market ... Vardags"The Times "One of the best divorce lawyers in the country"Marie Claire "Ayesha Vardag - 'diva of divorce' for the world's super rich" ![BBC](https://vardags.com/images/logo/bbc.png) "Dr Stephen Bence is a financial genius."Lewis Marks KC "Ayesha Vardag - the Queen of divorce"Daily Mail "Vardags brilliantly argued my case to a resounding victory"Pauline Chai (client) "Britain's top divorce lawyer" ![The Telegraph](https://vardags.com/images/logo/telegraph.png) More Divorce news ----------------- [TomKat Divorce: Ayesha Vardag talks to the Daily Telegraph](https://vardags.com/posts/tomkat-divorce-ayesha-talks "TomKat Divorce: Ayesha Vardag talks to the Daily Telegraph") [Divorce, heartache and health: facts and myth](https://vardags.com/family-law/divorce-heartache-health-facts-myth "Divorce, heartache and health: facts and myth") [Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage](https://vardags.com/posts/dont-let-divorce-marriage "Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage") [Ayesha Vardag - Divorce Diva](https://vardags.com/posts/ayesha-vardag-divorce-diva "Ayesha Vardag Divorce Diva") [Post-holiday divorce spike reaffirmed by new research](https://vardags.com/family-law/post-holiday-divorce-spike "Post-holiday divorce spike reaffirmed by new research") Articles by John Oxley ---------------------- [Ayesha Vardag on the differences between civil partnerships and gay marriage](https://vardags.com/posts/ayesha-vardag-civil-partnerships-gay-marriage "Ayesha Vardag on the differences between civil partnerships and gay marriage") [The women who would rather grow old alone](https://vardags.com/posts/women-rather-grow-old-alone "The women who would rather grow old alone") [Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage](https://vardags.com/posts/dont-let-divorce-marriage "Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage") [Treat your lover to a romantic no-nup](https://vardags.com/posts/treat-lover-romantic-no-nup "Treat your lover to a romantic no-nup") [Ayesha Vardag - Divorce Diva](https://vardags.com/posts/ayesha-vardag-divorce-diva "Ayesha Vardag Divorce Diva")