Fiction vs Family Law: Rob and Helen - when domestic abuse turns deadly ======================================================================= Earlier this week *The Archers* concluded its two and a half year long story line exploring the insidious nature of emotional abuse within romantic relationships. Before Christmas I noted the long running BBC radio soap had picked up the topic of [reproductive coercion](https://vardags.com/family-law/archers-reproductive-coercion/), and what that would mean after [new emotional abuse laws](https://vardags.com/family-law/archers-gaslighting/) were introduced at the end of last year. Now, Rob and Helen's relationship has come to an explosive end. In the dramatic dénouement of Sunday's episode, Rob is heard placing a knife in Helen's hand and urging her to stab herself, stating it will be the only way she can ever escape him. Helen had been attempting to exit their relationship, and as [I've observed before](https://vardags.com/family-law/jessica-jones/), this is almost always the most dangerous time for women suffering from domestic abuse. Between 50% and 75% of domestic homicides take place after the woman has exited the relationship. But this was not to be Helen's fate. Instead of taking her husband's advice, she turned the knife on him. Personally, I found this to be a rather disappointing crescendo. For a well-crafted, nuanced storyline that dealt with complex family law issues to crash headfirst into criminal law feels like something of a cop-out. It's also been done many times before, even on the *BBC*. In the early 2000s, *EastEnders* had Little Mo Mitchell attempt to murder her then-husband Trevor after years of physical, sexual and psychological abuse. While it may be rather dramatic, it stops these shows from taking a look at what the aftermath of abuse can look like, both from a legal and psychological perspective, and it doesn't reflect reality. That said, there are some very positive real-world ramifications of Rob and Helen's storyline. Polly North, the chief executive of Women's Aid, told the *BBC* that the National Domestic Abuse Helpline has seen a 20% rise in the number of [women reporting domestic abuse](https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-35961057)over the past 12 months, something she believed to be at least partly related to *The Archers.* And these may still be hope for this storyline, at least in terms of its representation of family law issues. Yesterday's episode made it clear that Rob hasn't succumbed to his wounds - at least not yet - so while there will undoubtedly be a criminal law aspect in the programme's future, there may be scope for other issues to be discussed as well. "Ayesha Vardag - Britain's top divorce lawyer." ![The Huffington Post](https://vardags.com/images/logo/huffpost.png) "Ayesha Vardag - Woman of the Year"![GG2](https://vardags.com/images/logo/gg2-3.png) "Leading, Magic Circle law firm."Mr Justice Coleridge "A handful of firms dominate the so-called 'glamour' end of the market ... Vardags"The Times "One of the best divorce lawyers in the country"Marie Claire "Ayesha Vardag - 'diva of divorce' for the world's super rich" ![BBC](https://vardags.com/images/logo/bbc.png) "Dr Stephen Bence is a financial genius."Lewis Marks KC "Ayesha Vardag - the Queen of divorce"Daily Mail "Vardags brilliantly argued my case to a resounding victory"Pauline Chai (client) "Britain's top divorce lawyer" ![The Telegraph](https://vardags.com/images/logo/telegraph.png) More Family Law news -------------------- [Unmarried mother fights for birth registration reform](https://vardags.com/family-law/unmarried-mother-birth-registration-reform "Unmarried mother fights for birth registration reform") [Colombia is poised to legalise same-sex marriage](https://vardags.com/family-law/colombia-legalise-sex-marriage "Colombia is poised to legalise same-sex marriage") [Fiction vs Family Law: Rob and Helen - when domestic abuse turns deadly](https://vardags.com/family-law/fiction-vs-family-domestic-abuse "Fiction vs Family Law: Rob and Helen when domestic abuse turns deadly") [Forced adoption case in Portugal is a breach of human rights](https://vardags.com/family-law/forced-adoption-human-rights "Forced adoption case in Portugal is a breach of human rights") [Contempt, committal, and children proceedings: appeal allowed in the case of child 'L'](https://vardags.com/family-law/contempt-committal-children-proceedings "Contempt, committal, and children proceedings: appeal allowed in the case of child L")