Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage ====================================================== ![Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/pictures/_360/e7c4b89a47216ef8108c20e901843c1f.jpeg)Ayesha Vardag spoke to the [Daily Telegraph](https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/9859341/Dont-let-the-divorce-turn-out-worse-than-the-marriage.html) about the acrimony which can arise in divorce cases. The article catalogued war stories from various top divorce lawyers of petty flare-ups during proceedings. Ayesha said to the paper "*These cases sound funny, but the reality of someone being assailed with that degree of heartbreak is deeply sad*." She went on to explain the rising role of the internet in such disputes, telling the paper "*They get hold of their spouse's online address book and send an email to all their contacts outlining what they've done; or they alter statuses on Facebook*." Ayesha concluded with some sage advice. "*It happens again and again, but fortunately, the courts will not sanction any of this. I tell my clients that it's much better not to be vindictive but to follow Ivana Trump's maxim of, 'Don't get mad, get everything*" she said to would-be litigants. Ayesha's comments were featured alongside those of a number of leading experts in divorce and psychology, and additionally quoted in the Daily Mail. "A handful of firms dominate the so-called 'glamour' end of the market ... Vardags"![The Times](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/thetimeslogo_white.png) "Ayesha Vardag - 'diva of divorce' for the world's super rich" ![BBC](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/bbc.png) "Ayesha Vardag - the Queen of divorce"![The Daily Mail](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/dailymaillogo_white.png) "Celebrity divorce lawyer" ![HELLO Magazine](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/hello_logo_2.png) "Ayesha Vardag, a divorce lawyer widely regarded as one of the world's best" ![METRO](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/whitelogo_metro_mag.png) "Vardags are both the Rolls Royce and the Ferrari of the family law world. The firm's strength and ability is remarkable. They take on unwinnable cases and win, they fight the unfightable and succeed and they relish the most complex and difficult of cases" ![Legal500](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/legal-500.png) "A formidably strong family law firm which acts in the most high-profile cases of the country"![Legal500](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/legal-500.png) "Vardags rightly attracts the best work in the field with ultra-high-net-worth clients and complex cases" ![Legal500](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/legal-500.png) "Vardags attracts the very best quality of lawyers who want to get stuck into high asset value and complicated work, which it offers in volumes which I think is unrivalled by other firms" ![Legal500](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/legal-500.png) "They attract such high-quality work because of their commitment to leaving no stone unturned, providing a gold standard service and thinking strategically at every turn" ![Legal500](https://vardags.com/it-en/images/logo/legal-500.png) More Divorce news ----------------- [Ayesha Vardag on whether sperm could be considered a marital asset](https://vardags.com/it-en/posts/ayesha-vardag-could-sperm-be-marital-asset "Ayesha Vardag on whether sperm could be considered a marital asset") [TomKat Divorce: Ayesha Vardag talks to the Daily Telegraph](https://vardags.com/it-en/posts/tomkat-divorce-ayesha-talks "TomKat Divorce: Ayesha Vardag talks to the Daily Telegraph") [Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage](https://vardags.com/it-en/posts/dont-let-divorce-marriage "Don't let the divorce turn out worse than the marriage") [Ayesha Vardag - Divorce Diva](https://vardags.com/it-en/posts/ayesha-vardag-divorce-diva "Ayesha Vardag Divorce Diva") [Claws out in £50million split of tiger couple](https://vardags.com/it-en/posts/claws-50million-split-tiger-couple "Claws out in 50million split of tiger couple")