My ex is a danger to me and/or the children, what can I do?

If you fear violence or are subject to harassment the court can and will protect you, even after your divorce. For victims of domestic abuse (be it physical, verbal or emotional harm) the court can make non-molestation orders and occupation orders each giving you comprehensive legal protection.

Non-molestation orders (“non-mols”) are designed to protect your from harassment. Normally, they will prevent your ex-partner from harassing you and threatening you with violence. Sometimes they will bar them from contacting you directly and from going near you.

Breaking a non-mol is a criminal offence, and your partner can be arrested immediately if they break the terms, even if they have committed no other crime. Your local police will be notified that the orders are in place and will help protect you if the order is broken. For breaking an occupation order, your ex- can be punished by the civil courts.

Vardags are sadly used to supporting people in these frightening circumstances. If you fear domestic violence, we can help you get these orders and advise you on to how to best protect yourself. We will advise you on the appropriate medical and psychological evidence put before the court and do all we can to build up the evidence in your case.

In addition to court orders, we can introduce you to providers of specialist security so that you can have peace of mind in your home and elsewhere.

If you feel at immediate risk of domestic violence, please contact the police straight away.

If you’re considering or going through a divorce and feel your ex is a danger to you or your children, click below for a free initial consultation with one of our expert divorce solicitors.

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